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Love That Shows Up

Love, translated into Tuesday.

Love that looks like patience, kindness, and everyday choices.

The big idea

Love isn’t a feeling — it’s a way of showing up, again and again, for the people in front of you.

What does “Love That Shows Up” walk through?

1

Patient. Kind.

1 Corinthians 13:4 · KJV

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

In plain English

Real love is patient and kind. It doesn’t compete, brag, or act proud.

2

Slow, Unglamorous Stuff

Paul doesn’t start with fireworks. He starts with patience and kindness — the slow, unglamorous stuff. Love, it turns out, looks more like a long dinner than a wedding ring.

3

Not About You

1 Corinthians 13:5 · KJV

Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

In plain English

Love isn’t rude or selfish. It stays calm and doesn’t assume the worst.

“Love is not an emotion. It is a policy.”

4

The Golden Rule

Luke 6:31 · KJV

And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise.

In plain English

Treat others the way you want to be treated. This is a simple guide for relationships.

5

Slow Down

James 1:19 · KJV

Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:

In plain English

Listen first, speak carefully, and don’t rush into anger. This helps relationships stay healthy.

6

Love Is a Pace

Quick to listen. Slow to speak. Slow to anger. Most broken relationships reverse all three. Love, in practice, is mostly about pace.

7

With Your Whole Heart

Colossians 3:23 · KJV

And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;

In plain English

Do your work with full effort and integrity. Make it an offering to God, not just to impress people.

Pray

Jesus, teach me to love the person in front of me today — not the idea of them, but the actual them.

Write it down

Who in your life is hard to love right now? What’s one small way you could show up for them this week?

You finished: Love That Shows Up

You can’t give what you haven’t received. If love feels like a well that’s run dry, return to the source — God first loved you. From that, love spills out. Not forced. Just flowing.

Which passages does this journey use?

5 passages, drawn from 1 Corinthians 13:4, 1 Corinthians 13:5, Luke 6:31, James 1:19, Colossians 3:23. Every verse appears here in the King James text with a plain-English line beside it, so you can read it without a commentary open. Allow about 8 minutes for the whole thing, or 9 short sittings.

  • 1 Corinthians 13:4
  • 1 Corinthians 13:5
  • Luke 6:31
  • James 1:19
  • Colossians 3:23

Read any of these in full on the complete KJV, or look the wording up independently at Blue Letter Bible.

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