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A Closer Look: The Love Chapter

What 1 Corinthians 13 actually says.

Read outside a wedding, this chapter is confrontational.

The big idea

Paul wrote the famous love passage to a church that was fighting.

Opening scripture

“Real love is patient and kind. It doesn’t compete, brag, or act proud.”
1 Corinthians 13:4

What does “A Closer Look: The Love Chapter” walk through?

1

Patient And Kind

1 Corinthians 13:4 · KJV

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

In plain English

Real love is patient and kind. It doesn’t compete, brag, or act proud.

2

Not A Wedding Reading

This sits in the middle of a letter correcting a divided, showy church. It is not romantic — it is corrective, and the first audience would have squirmed.

3

Not Self-Seeking

1 Corinthians 13:5 · KJV

Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

In plain English

Love isn’t rude or selfish. It stays calm and doesn’t assume the worst.

“Try reading it with your own name in place of the word love. It stops being sentimental immediately.”

4

We Love Because

1 John 4:19 · KJV

We love him, because he first loved us.

In plain English

We love because he loved us first.

5

The Source Matters

Trying to manufacture this list by willpower fails fast. It is described elsewhere as fruit — something grown, not forced.

6

The Fruit Of The Spirit

Galatians 5:22 · KJV

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,

In plain English

God’s Spirit grows a new kind of character in you—love, joy, peace, patience, and more.

Pray

God, I cannot produce this on my own. Grow it in me. Amen.

Write it down

Which line is hardest when you put your own name in it?

Grown, not forced

Ask for it rather than gritting your teeth.

Which passages does this journey use?

4 passages, drawn from 1 Corinthians 13:4, 1 Corinthians 13:5, 1 John 4:19, Galatians 5:22. Every verse appears here in the King James text with a plain-English line beside it, so you can read it without a commentary open. Allow about 7 minutes for the whole thing, or 8 short sittings.

  • 1 Corinthians 13:4
  • 1 Corinthians 13:5
  • 1 John 4:19
  • Galatians 5:22

Read any of these in full on the complete KJV, or look the wording up independently at Blue Letter Bible.

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